Yes, it was a bit rude, so what? Welcome to reality, where assholes are everywhere and the care bears don't exist.
I really envy people like you, OP. You have no f...king idea what the world is about and yet you are still breathing like any us. You must be a very lucky person, dude, and I hope God help you the moment you stop being one.
You ppl are pathetic that want social interaction from hs jesus .Get a life and stop trying giving hs any mean other than play cards do quest get high on ladder.There no point in emoting saying gg/wp or gl its just wasting of time.None of your "friends" are actually a friend of yours and it wont ever be(unless ofc they are ppl you you know from real life)they are there for a random reason and only offer give or take gold quest.
You ppl are pathetic that want social interaction from hs jesus .Get a life and stop trying giving hs any mean other than play cards do quest get high on ladder.There no point in emoting saying gg/wp or gl its just wasting of time.None of your "friends" are actually a friend of yours and it wont ever be(unless ofc they are ppl you you know from real life)they are there for a random reason and only offer give or take gold quest.
Exactly. I don't care if you're my friend or not, if you dare emote in my game you're being offensive and rude, all you'll get from me is a FAT SQUELCH and a report for BM. AND I unfriend you on my F2P account. Y'all vulgar EMOS better understand this before you insult my serious gamer skills with your ugly bubble texts.
if you look for other frends , this is my battle tag (zikou#11628) playing in eu . i ll be happy if any of my friends wants to play friendly games even if not for the quests
Something else to consider: They may be playing on mobile. In my experience/option, the chat implementation on mobile is horrible, to the point that I only use it for absolute necessities. You can multitask while chatting on desktop, but if you're mobile, the chat takes the entire screen, along with the slower typing speed that comes along with it.
Wow, how can you be this sensitive? this post makes no sense... you should be happy, that you got 80 gold for free... You are waaay overreacting this shit....
You're making assumptions of etiquette here. That is, how you play isn't what everyone else plays.
The only REAL expectation as far as 80 gold quests goes is that if you both have it then you should both play each other so that both players get both quests.
Otherwise, assuming that they ar esomeone that actually wants to play a meme deck is rather...well, assuming. Especially if you've been doing it regularly with them. You SHOULD know that the person is more interested in just completing the quest and getting back to the competition. In fact, the idea of playing a slow, 'for fun' deck might be seen as insulting as it's wasting their time.
For myself I tend to be rather quiet unless talked to as I get kind of anti-social in 1 on 1 settings (I prefer groups like forums or guild chats). I usually don't run meta decks but I WILL try to pick a working one and I try to focus on not wasting their time while aiming for the win. Unless I've talked to them beforehand though, I make no assumptions of my opponent so they do whatever they want to do.
The trick is, you shouldn't just assume everyone wants to play your way. Instead you should either talk to the other person or just focus on getting a 'feel' of how they want to play. If you dislike it, then either talk to them about it (if you feel they might listen/accept it) or just stop working with them.
But if aren't talking to the person and accepting their requests then you really aren't in a position to fuss about it. Accept how they are, persuade them to change how they work with you, or find someone else.
We don't interact at all over many days or weeks but on a regular basis he just asks me if I want 80 gold. I agree and then he challenges me. Again there is not interaction during the game and in the end I thank him kindly and we part again.
He seems to be just a cool guy who wants to finish his daylies and doesn't make too much fuss about it.
Again for you OP. You get 80 gold basicly for free from a complete stranger. This already is super friendly enough imo.
We don't interact at all over many days or weeks but on a regular basis he just asks me if I want 80 gold. I agree and then he challenges me. Again there is not interaction during the game and in the end I thank him kindly and we part again.
He seems to be just a cool guy who wants to finish his daylies and doesn't make too much fuss about it.
Again for you OP. You get 80 gold basicly for free from a complete stranger. This already is super friendly enough imo.
Honestly sounds like how most of my interactions go with my friends list. Though I don't even ask, I just look for whoever is open and send the request.
Seriously, if guilds were ever added I'd join the first one I could find and dump my entire friends' list. I disliked them since they started showing up in MMOs and I never could get into them even here. I prefer groups.
in my opinion, a friend who does not like to chat with me, is not a friend worth keeping. if they dont want to talk with me, then why do they want to be my friend? whats the point?
its hard to know why they might not want to talk, because you dont know who they are in real life. maybe they are a little kid and cant spell, maybe they only have OTK paladin and dont want to fight against it. you never know, but you should not let it bother you.
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You ppl are pathetic that want social interaction from hs jesus .Get a life and stop trying giving hs any mean other than play cards do quest get high on ladder.There no point in emoting saying gg/wp or gl its just wasting of time.None of your "friends" are actually a friend of yours and it wont ever be(unless ofc they are ppl you you know from real life)they are there for a random reason and only offer give or take gold quest.
i think calling him pathetic is a bit much. he is probably not playing hearthstone just for social interaction. but wanting his friend to talk to him while they are playing against each other is reasonable.
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You ppl are pathetic that want social interaction from hs jesus .Get a life and stop trying giving hs any mean other than play cards do quest get high on ladder.There no point in emoting saying gg/wp or gl its just wasting of time.None of your "friends" are actually a friend of yours and it wont ever be(unless ofc they are ppl you you know from real life)they are there for a random reason and only offer give or take gold quest.
You ppl are pathetic that want social interaction from hs jesus .Get a life and stop trying giving hs any mean other than play cards do quest get high on ladder.There no point in emoting saying gg/wp or gl its just wasting of time.None of your "friends" are actually a friend of yours and it wont ever be(unless ofc they are ppl you you know from real life)they are there for a random reason and only offer give or take gold quest.
What a sad and lonely existence you must lead....
If you read all my reply you wouldnt say that as i said hoping in making social interactions through hs is pathetic so yeah i wont waste my time with random ppl on battlenet i prefer actual ppl (friends family gf) to fill that part of my life and if thats what you mean sad existance then gl with your online "friends" of yours im sure they will help when you need them and be there for you.Not expecting anything from random ppl online should always be your default expectation period
You ppl are pathetic that want social interaction from hs jesus .Get a life and stop trying giving hs any mean other than play cards do quest get high on ladder.There no point in emoting saying gg/wp or gl its just wasting of time.None of your "friends" are actually a friend of yours and it wont ever be(unless ofc they are ppl you you know from real life)they are there for a random reason and only offer give or take gold quest.
i think calling him pathetic is a bit much. he is probably not playing hearthstone just for social interaction. but wanting his friend to talk to him while they are playing against each other is reasonable.
Never expect anything from anyone online its simple they dont own you anything and the "friends" on your list unless they are ppl you actually know are not friends but random ppl you added them for some random reason and beside giving/taking gold there isnt any other reason to interact with them(ofc you if feel like it go for interaction but NEVER expect same attitude from others just hope for it)
You ppl are pathetic that want social interaction from hs jesus .Get a life and stop trying giving hs any mean other than play cards do quest get high on ladder.There no point in emoting saying gg/wp or gl its just wasting of time.None of your "friends" are actually a friend of yours and it wont ever be(unless ofc they are ppl you you know from real life)they are there for a random reason and only offer give or take gold quest.
i think calling him pathetic is a bit much. he is probably not playing hearthstone just for social interaction. but wanting his friend to talk to him while they are playing against each other is reasonable.
Wanting friends to talk and socialize with is reasonable (the folks who are bashing the very concept of wanting to interact with other people, in a forum based around interacting with people seems rather...yeah, stupid).
But this sounds like a case of the OP wanting a certain interaction, not getting it and instead of looking for others or asking for more interaction or anything proactive, he comes to the forums to vent about how the person he's been working with for some time isn't following etiquette, as if their preferred style is a rule that's being broken.
It just feels off. If you look at it from a IRL standpoint, it's having a friend that doesn't like going out to shop with you and instead of talking to said friend or going out with another friend, talking about your friend not acting right with some co-workers you don't really know much.
I'm not chatty to my friend's list. Trying too hard to push a conversation would probably push me away rather than pull me in. I'd fully understand a person wanting a more chatty friend to unfriend me for it. You should have a friend's list of people you want to have on your friend's list. So get that list. You shouldn't need a bunch of random people to tell you that (and if you do, well.. you know now, so go )
When the fuck did 'being entitled' become the the flip around for just being polite?
Someone says hello you should say hello back, I don;'t really care about the rest of the points made, but that is a principle of life that leads to us not kicking the shit out of each other all the time.
Giving someone gold doesn't give you permission to be a dick.
When the fuck did 'being entitled' become the the flip around for just being polite?
Someone says hello you should say hello back, I don;'t really care about the rest of the points made, but that is a principle of life that leads to us not kicking the shit out of each other all the time.
Giving someone gold doesn't give you permission to be a dick.
OP isn't just asking for 'hello' for a 'hello'. They also get into the matter of picking an off-meta deck then being shocked when their opponent picked a meta deck, also being shocked at not emoting (which a good number of folks here go into fits when they see an emote) and no follow up conversations when it's all done. The OP was expecting some long-running meme battle and chatter fest with a person they barely know, and came to the forum talking about etiquette because the person who gave them a 80g quest didn't feel the same way.
And, by how it sounds, this isn't the first time.
It’s really miffed me that this particular player is always like this. It’s not even like they’re a new player. They’re usually always around rank 5 when they ask for my help with a quest.
As in, they've friended the person, accepting a quest, realized they don't talk or play around or do anything, then keep going back to the person accepting more quests and keep being bothered by the interaction that they know the person will do each time. And no talk about talking to the person and going "hey, how about we try a 'for fun deck'." or "hey, why don't you respond when I say hello?" or simply unfriending the person and finding someone better.
IF this really was a case of "Oh I just friended a person and we do a quest and they ignore me when I say hi." then yeah, not exactly post worthy (more of salt thread) but yeah the it's just a case of the person being an ass.
But it's pretty much a known thing for a while that the person is a person who just 'gets on with it' when it comes to quests and doesn't really care to interact with anyone. They offered the quest simply because it requires a few additional steps and that's all the OP is to the other person: just an additional step to completing a quest. AND they are an ass that doesn't respond to chat.
So drop him. Or if you need to post don't turn it into another "OMG ()$# meta deck players ruining everyone's fun!" post. It changes the message from "someone is being rude" to "My friend's fun is WRONG! And against some social law." It's what many are picking up when fussing about this.
Yes, it was a bit rude, so what? Welcome to reality, where assholes are everywhere and the care bears don't exist.
I really envy people like you, OP. You have no f...king idea what the world is about and yet you are still breathing like any us. You must be a very lucky person, dude, and I hope God help you the moment you stop being one.
You ppl are pathetic that want social interaction from hs jesus .Get a life and stop trying giving hs any mean other than play cards do quest get high on ladder.There no point in emoting saying gg/wp or gl its just wasting of time.None of your "friends" are actually a friend of yours and it wont ever be(unless ofc they are ppl you you know from real life)they are there for a random reason and only offer give or take gold quest.
Exactly. I don't care if you're my friend or not, if you dare emote in my game you're being offensive and rude, all you'll get from me is a FAT SQUELCH and a report for BM. AND I unfriend you on my F2P account. Y'all vulgar EMOS better understand this before you insult my serious gamer skills with your ugly bubble texts.
if you look for other frends , this is my battle tag (zikou#11628) playing in eu . i ll be happy if any of my friends wants to play friendly games even if not for the quests
That "douche" gave OP 80 gold for free. Deleting him would be stupid as f...k!!!
Can you people stop being so emotional and start to think a bit from time to time? Thank you!!!
This true, chatting on mobile is not ideal.
Wow, how can you be this sensitive? this post makes no sense... you should be happy, that you got 80 gold for free... You are waaay overreacting this shit....
You're making assumptions of etiquette here. That is, how you play isn't what everyone else plays.
The only REAL expectation as far as 80 gold quests goes is that if you both have it then you should both play each other so that both players get both quests.
Otherwise, assuming that they ar esomeone that actually wants to play a meme deck is rather...well, assuming. Especially if you've been doing it regularly with them. You SHOULD know that the person is more interested in just completing the quest and getting back to the competition. In fact, the idea of playing a slow, 'for fun' deck might be seen as insulting as it's wasting their time.
For myself I tend to be rather quiet unless talked to as I get kind of anti-social in 1 on 1 settings (I prefer groups like forums or guild chats). I usually don't run meta decks but I WILL try to pick a working one and I try to focus on not wasting their time while aiming for the win. Unless I've talked to them beforehand though, I make no assumptions of my opponent so they do whatever they want to do.
The trick is, you shouldn't just assume everyone wants to play your way. Instead you should either talk to the other person or just focus on getting a 'feel' of how they want to play. If you dislike it, then either talk to them about it (if you feel they might listen/accept it) or just stop working with them.
But if aren't talking to the person and accepting their requests then you really aren't in a position to fuss about it. Accept how they are, persuade them to change how they work with you, or find someone else.
One does not simply walk into Mordor,
unless they want to be the best they can be.
There is this guy I once added after a good game.
We don't interact at all over many days or weeks but on a regular basis he just asks me if I want 80 gold. I agree and then he challenges me. Again there is not interaction during the game and in the end I thank him kindly and we part again.
He seems to be just a cool guy who wants to finish his daylies and doesn't make too much fuss about it.
Again for you OP. You get 80 gold basicly for free from a complete stranger. This already is super friendly enough imo.
Honestly sounds like how most of my interactions go with my friends list. Though I don't even ask, I just look for whoever is open and send the request.
Seriously, if guilds were ever added I'd join the first one I could find and dump my entire friends' list. I disliked them since they started showing up in MMOs and I never could get into them even here. I prefer groups.
One does not simply walk into Mordor,
unless they want to be the best they can be.
in my opinion, a friend who does not like to chat with me, is not a friend worth keeping. if they dont want to talk with me, then why do they want to be my friend? whats the point?
its hard to know why they might not want to talk, because you dont know who they are in real life. maybe they are a little kid and cant spell, maybe they only have OTK paladin and dont want to fight against it. you never know, but you should not let it bother you.
Rejoice, for even in death, you have become children of Thanos.
i think calling him pathetic is a bit much. he is probably not playing hearthstone just for social interaction. but wanting his friend to talk to him while they are playing against each other is reasonable.
Rejoice, for even in death, you have become children of Thanos.
What a sad and lonely existence you must lead....
If you read all my reply you wouldnt say that as i said hoping in making social interactions through hs is pathetic so yeah i wont waste my time with random ppl on battlenet i prefer actual ppl (friends family gf) to fill that part of my life and if thats what you mean sad existance then gl with your online "friends" of yours im sure they will help when you need them and be there for you.Not expecting anything from random ppl online should always be your default expectation period
Never expect anything from anyone online its simple they dont own you anything and the "friends" on your list unless they are ppl you actually know are not friends but random ppl you added them for some random reason and beside giving/taking gold there isnt any other reason to interact with them(ofc you if feel like it go for interaction but NEVER expect same attitude from others just hope for it)
Wanting friends to talk and socialize with is reasonable (the folks who are bashing the very concept of wanting to interact with other people, in a forum based around interacting with people seems rather...yeah, stupid).
But this sounds like a case of the OP wanting a certain interaction, not getting it and instead of looking for others or asking for more interaction or anything proactive, he comes to the forums to vent about how the person he's been working with for some time isn't following etiquette, as if their preferred style is a rule that's being broken.
It just feels off. If you look at it from a IRL standpoint, it's having a friend that doesn't like going out to shop with you and instead of talking to said friend or going out with another friend, talking about your friend not acting right with some co-workers you don't really know much.
I'm not chatty to my friend's list. Trying too hard to push a conversation would probably push me away rather than pull me in. I'd fully understand a person wanting a more chatty friend to unfriend me for it. You should have a friend's list of people you want to have on your friend's list. So get that list. You shouldn't need a bunch of random people to tell you that (and if you do, well.. you know now, so go )
One does not simply walk into Mordor,
unless they want to be the best they can be.
Can we get a mod to lock down this thread? It’s getting a bit out of hand...
Best etiquette for the 80g quest: playing suicide warlock.
When the fuck did 'being entitled' become the the flip around for just being polite?
Someone says hello you should say hello back, I don;'t really care about the rest of the points made, but that is a principle of life that leads to us not kicking the shit out of each other all the time.
Giving someone gold doesn't give you permission to be a dick.
OP isn't just asking for 'hello' for a 'hello'. They also get into the matter of picking an off-meta deck then being shocked when their opponent picked a meta deck, also being shocked at not emoting (which a good number of folks here go into fits when they see an emote) and no follow up conversations when it's all done. The OP was expecting some long-running meme battle and chatter fest with a person they barely know, and came to the forum talking about etiquette because the person who gave them a 80g quest didn't feel the same way.
And, by how it sounds, this isn't the first time.
As in, they've friended the person, accepting a quest, realized they don't talk or play around or do anything, then keep going back to the person accepting more quests and keep being bothered by the interaction that they know the person will do each time. And no talk about talking to the person and going "hey, how about we try a 'for fun deck'." or "hey, why don't you respond when I say hello?" or simply unfriending the person and finding someone better.
IF this really was a case of "Oh I just friended a person and we do a quest and they ignore me when I say hi." then yeah, not exactly post worthy (more of salt thread) but yeah the it's just a case of the person being an ass.
But it's pretty much a known thing for a while that the person is a person who just 'gets on with it' when it comes to quests and doesn't really care to interact with anyone. They offered the quest simply because it requires a few additional steps and that's all the OP is to the other person: just an additional step to completing a quest. AND they are an ass that doesn't respond to chat.
So drop him. Or if you need to post don't turn it into another "OMG ()$# meta deck players ruining everyone's fun!" post. It changes the message from "someone is being rude" to "My friend's fun is WRONG! And against some social law." It's what many are picking up when fussing about this.
One does not simply walk into Mordor,
unless they want to be the best they can be.