Everyone has the same time limit each turn. You cant control what they do. Think about your turn and if you think it's bm then try and do some roping yourself. Sometimes people are getting drinks etc when the game just startes - i do that a lot. Start a game and then get myself a drink. Not bm but thirsty or have some other stuff to do.
And sometimes i take my time when i know it annoys my opponent. Tilting players make a lot of misplays.
Either this is a troll, or this just doesn't make sense. There are worse decks out there than control and it honestly is one of the decks that requires more skill in my opinion and i don't even really play control. And how does taking long about a turn make you dumb? They need to think their turns through. Take Lifecoach for example, he ropes nearly every turn but it makes him better. It might be annoying for your opponent but on the other hand you have the time to think YOUR turn through